So my relationship with Tasha has been weird for a while now. It seems that we hit some kind of spot where things were, well, weird.
Last Friday, on the way home for Spring Break, I really confronted her about it. Like dead on. She could not escape as we were traveling in the car at the time and I finally kind of found out what has been going on in her head. I do not think it is appropriate for me to divulge all of that information to strangers on the internet but finally knowing is kind of a relief.
We were able to talk it out and kind of discuss it and figure out what we want right now. No we are not breaking up and yes we are still very much in love, she just wanted something to change and was afraid to ask about it and I think getting her to admit to it, while it really sucks for me, was good. She kind of hammered it in today because I was all confused about it and blah blah blah.
So I have been in a crappy mood all day because of it, but at least I know now so we can get back to our relationship the way it is supposed to be. Not knowing what the hell was going on in her head was the worst. I think that can be the worst in an relationship. When a communication barrier has been placed up and cannot be broken down, it is impossible for the relationship to go absolutely anywhere.
But now it seems we can move past it and work towards where we want our relationship to me. And while one of the changes really bothers me, and annoys me, and confuses me to no end, I am trying to understand and hopefully will, maybe, probably not. Oh well...
So here are some words of wisdom for anyone out there in a relationship, communicate and do not be afraid to tell them what you are really thinking. Maybe they are thinking the same thing or perhaps they have wanted you to open up so bad it has been killing them. Just, please, be honest with one another, it really helps in the end.
So I am timing this to work out where my 200th post will be on my 20th birthday. Kind of cool eh? I think it is awesome that it worked out like that. I am still working on new title ideas and we'll see if I can't come up with something good by Tuesday. Thanks as always for reading and you should perhaps maybe have your friends meander over to my little part of the internet, thanks!
1 comment:
I'm happy to hear you guys got that handled.
Unfortunately, I had a similar issue, and I was the only one willing to try to work through it. I guess it was just too little too late for me.
Good thing you got it in time. I truly am glad. It's never good for anybody to feel the pain of being in love with somebody and not being able to make it work.
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